Are You a Great Lover?

It would not be hard to imagine the thought that crossed your mind when you heard this question. It's what any man would think. There are some exceptions of course.

A famous Hollywood actor, know also for his charm with women was asked in an interview: "What makes a great lover?" Surprisingly, he didn't go into technicalities. In fact, his answer was far from the picture Hollywood tends to portray when it comes to it.

He said: "There are two things," he replied. "First, it is a man who can satisfy one woman over a lifetime. And, second, it is a man who can be satisfied with one woman for a lifetime."

Brilliant answer! To build a strong relationship, where you and your wife canlive out genuine togetherness and happiness, you as a man should commit to satisfying her needs – not just physical, but emotional as well.

One of the needs, as you perhaps know by now, is security: knowing that you are someone she can count on, who will have her back – a man of integrity and honest, a man who commits thru better and worse. High divorce rates and casual one-night stands might seem trendy, but the need is still there – built-in.

You just got handled the keys to sweeping a woman off you're her feet and getting her to stay. So, when approaching dating bear this in mind. Because, let's agree it is one thing to woo her, but it doesn't stop there. Or does it? It is an art and as with any art there is hard work and the joy of satisfaction.

For more on her emotional needs and the art of a happy long-term relationship.