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What if that sexy Russian woman that stole your heart away, is not be all she claims to be? It turns out she's not after your heart at all, but rather you wallet. Beware. Some Russian brides are scammers or part of a larger internet dating scam system.

Did you know that many of the scammers use pictures of Russian celebrities for their fake profiles? See the list of celebrities whose photos are most often used by scammers in Russian brides scams.


Forewarned is forearmed

Written by Evgenia Burilova. Send her your opinion at We read all the letters.

Evgenia Burilova

You have just stepped into the world of beautiful foreign women. You are likely to be full of hopes, expectations, and dreams. You are eager to find things you have despaired of finding in your own country. You seek beauty, love, understanding, and appreciation. And then all of a sudden you find it all (or so you feel). You have just discovered someone that seems so right for you. You barely know her, but your heart tells you she is the one. Your feelings are overwhelmed with her beauty. You are no longer your rational self. You are in love, and ready to put the whole world to your foreign darling's feet. The girl is absolutely wonderful. She is just very poor and desperately needs money. She asks you for help. You might or might not be taken aback by that request. In any case, you think to yourself "anything for that wondrous woman" and take out your wallet. Better hold your horses. Not all is gold that glitters.

Just as everywhere else this mysterious world of foreign brides is full of its own dangers. Man becomes awfully vulnerable when it comes to love. He forgets himself. He loses his head. He gets emotional. As a result, he is easy to be taken advantage of. Many women understand it. Some of them will try to use it. Ever heard of so-called "dating scammers"? They are people dying to cash in on men's feelings. They disguise themselves as beautiful loving women. Their only goal is to con you for money. And they will pull all the different tricks on you to achieve their goal.

First, they will try to seduce you with beautiful pictures. Next, they will sweet-talk you into sending them money. Then they will disappear. Nothing complicated. And yet many men have fallen victims to such schemes. Does it mean these pitfalls are unavoidable? Does it mean scammers are impossible to recognize among hundreds of honest women? The answer is NOT AT ALL. Common sense and a basic knowledge of standard scam scenarios go a long way.

Here is the most classic of all scams. You meet this most gorgeous girl on the Internet. You correspond with her for a while. You are getting to like her. A lot. At some point she tells you you are the love of her life, and she is dying to meet you in person. Money is the only problem. So, could you please send her some cash to help her pay for the tickets/visa/passport? Such a request should immediately put a man on his guard. It often catches him off guard instead. Why? Because he feels like he has known this woman forever when in fact he has not. He sure is convinced this woman is completely innocent. She is just really desperate and needs his help. After all, he wants to meet her just as badly, doesn't he? Well, the truth is he really does NOT want to meet someone like that.

A scammer might use different other plots to achieve her ultimate goal. For instance, she might attempt to play on your feelings. She will do her best to arouse your sympathy. What would you say to "I don't have enough money to pay for my internet service" coming from an incredibly sweet attractive girl? You do want to be able to stay in touch with her, don't you? The 50 dollars she needs would not hurt your budget, would it? How about "oh, my god! My mom's dying of cancer (stomach ulcer/brain tumor - you name it!)! I've managed to find $170, but it's not enough! I need $450 more… I'm so devastated, and have no one to turn to for help! No one but you.. It hurts me so asking you for money, but please help me if you can… I don't know what to do.. been crying my eyes out every night.. You're my only hope in the whole world.."? How would you react to that kind of heart-rending letter? Would you rush to the nearest bank and send her the money to keep her from selling herself?

It all might sound somewhat cynical. But it would help if all men receiving that kind of messages realized that there is no dying mom. There is a crafty scammer behind that "cry for help". Nothing but a fraud who has been sending such letters to hundreds of other men. There is no human tragedy in such cases. Just shady business.

A scammer can come up with a hundred good reasons why she needs money, and why YOU have to help her. However, most of them use the same old tricks that have proved fairly reliable. A girl might ask a man to pay a non-existent monthly fee of $50 at her agency. She might tell you she needs money to pay an interpreter to translate her letters to you. Because her English is not enough to let her express her feelings. And you do want to know about her inner feelings for you, right? She might tell you a heart-breaking story about her losing her job, losing her money, being in debts. The list goes on and on. Use your imagination!

The girls' English might be poor, but it does not prevent them from being very convincing in their emails. Some of them are rather blunt about the money matter. Others are ever so subtle. They might not actually openly ask for money. They might simply imply it by complaining about how tough they have it.

Do not be gullible. Do not let some frauds fool you. No honest, respectable woman will EVER ask you for money in such situation. Nor will she hint at it. No matter how reasonable they might seem to you, any money requests are absurd and inappropriate. By complying with them you are setting yourself up for a big fall.

A woman who has her heart in the right place will never play on your emotions. She will never try to arouse your sympathy with a view to get some money from you. She will never exploit you and your feelings. A true woman does not want pity. She wants love. She does not want money. She wants a relationship. She will NEVER accept any money from you until you have actually met, and your relationship has turned into something real. You do not want a woman preoccupied with money. A scammer will of course claim she does not care about money, but we all know actions speak louder than words.

You by no means are encouraged to become cynical, paranoid, or scared. There is no need to be distrustful of all foreign women seeking their love over the Internet. You should keep in mind that most women out there are not fakes. They are sincerely looking for someone they can spend the rest of their lives with. They are truly beautiful both on the outside and the inside.

It is highly important to be careful in everything, not just Internet romances. We take precautions in our daily life to avoid troubles. Why not take them here too? Better safe than sorry.

Hundreds of men have met their foreign wives with the help of the Internet and are happily married now. Keep that in mind. Also remember that there is no instant gratification in love. Be patient and your patience will be rewarded. Just like this life is worth living in spite of all the dangers and difficulties, true love is worth searching for. Be careful, but do not let dangers daunt you.

Do not waste your feelings, sympathy, and money on scammers. Save it all for someone who truly deserves it.

Editor's comments : I speak with my clients on the phone every day.  And MANY (I mean really a lot) of them tell me they had been scammed at some point.  So, if you also had been scammed, do not think you are too gullible. It's just those scammers are that good.  They know how to get people hooked, and they adapt when situations change. For instance, lately, the scammers don't just ask for money for the visa/ticket, as this scenario is too widely known.  Instead, a scammer would tell the guy she has the money, and are going to pay for her visa/ticket herself.  What could be more disarming than that?  However, in the midst of the process, she suddenly comes up $400 short and just wants to "borrow" this amount from you.  It's easy to fall for such a trick, even if you are an absolutely rational guy, especially, if she produces some documents, like a passport with a US visa.  Needless to say, you won't ever see this money, or her again.  We have seen our share of fake passports/visas/tickets, so if "she" or whoever it is, sends you a copy of a document you think might be fake, send it to us.
The new Rupersonal site is being monitored for possible scamming activity.  We are able to track, if a member is sending multiple messages to other members, if she is using certain keywords, etc. and we suspend or delete them immediately. We also warn our members of possible scam/abuse and let members warn us, if they receive a suspicious letter.  So you are protected to a certain extent here.  However, your best protection is your common sense.  Do not send money.
Keep in mind that sometimes the scammer is not the actual girl, but the agency that "represents" her. The most common scenario is when an agency charges you for the correspondence with their ladies. It could be a monthly fee of $50 or so, or they charge you per each letter received. The problem is that those letters are not written by the ladies, but by the agency staff. On the other hand, there are some absolutely legitimate agencies, that also charge men for correspondence. These agencies have real girls, writing real letters - the agency just collects a fee for delivering and/or translating the correspondence.
How can you tell the honest ones from scams? First, use common sense. For example, if a hot Russian woman tells you she is falling in love with you in a second letter or so, and you are not George Clooney, it is definitely a red flag. Another thing to watch out for is when the fee comes as a surprise (i. e. their site advertises "write to our ladies for free" and then, after you have exchanged a couple of letters with a stunning lady, and "have really hit it off", you receive an email from the "Manager of the agency" telling you that in order to keep corresponding, you have to pay. Personally, I would avoid anything that is advertising as free service.  Any company has got to make money to pay wages.  If they advertise as free service, ask yourself how are they going to make money. Third, you should be able to get her home phone number. If her agency precludes you from getting her number, or if "she" repeatedly ignores your question in her letters, that is a big red flag.
When in doubt - call or email us, we will help, for free.
And finally, do not send money to any woman. We cannot reinforce it enough. A woman who is sincere, will not ask you for money.
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So, get well informed and be prudent when purusing Russian brides in internet dating, still, don't go overboard with paranoia as in this case.

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Seven is a quite a special number. It is considered God's number: 7 days in a week, 7 angels in the Apocalypses, seven commandments... you wish! There are ten, all right.

Anyways, here are 7 smooth and clear steps for you to take to enter that sensational honeymoon.

Click here fill in the form, add your photo and you're pretty much done.

Note: the more details you add, the better your chances to get replies. 'Cause every day young Russian Girls from all over Ukraine and Russia will log on to to check and reply to men they like.
You browse the gallery of mouthwatering profiles and choose the women you would like to know better. Then, just write a message to your favorite young Russian girls - you still get to do it for Free.
You received a reply and can't wait to open it. Only at this point you will need to purchase credits ($1-$2 per credit depending on how many you buy). The number of credits needed to open a letter varies (see the Price Structure). Pay with a credit card, a check, wire transfer, and more.

You establish great communication and become good friends - no comments and no extra charge.
You can order an interpreted phone call, which costs 1.8 credits per minute (1 credit, if you don't require translation) and chat your heart out with that cute, young Russian girl. More on FAQ page.

Note: Please, keep in mind that exchanging personal contact info during such phone calls is not allowed.
So, you wrote back and forth, you talked on the phone and you really like that girl... You decide to get her direct contact details. Ok. First and foremost, you need to fill out the IMBRA form (US citizens only). Then, two options. One (recommended) is to open 15 messages from the lady and you have the right to request her contact info (or your money back, if this cannot be provided, which is very unlikely). Another option is to pay a $50 fee, whereupon we will contact your chosen young Russian girl and ask her permission to send you her contact details. Note that this money will not be refunded, if permission is not given, so make sure you have her consent.

Note: Please, keep in mind that even if you do have 15 opened messages from a lady, you cannot exchange personal contact info with her through our messaging system. You need to contact us. More on FAQ page.
Once you have established a relationships with one or a few of these gorgeous, young Russian girls, it's time to meet them personally. So, how do you do that? Since you both are located on different continents, we can help arrange your first meeting, if you both positively agree to that. Most women won't be able to obtain a US visa, so you will have to travel to her country, or meet on a “neutral territory”, like Dominican Republic, France, Turkey, Cyprus, etc. Read more on Visas and Immigration in our FAQ.

Note: If you choose not to use our service to arrange your meeting with the lady, there is a way to bypass it by getting her direct contact information. Read about it here.
Once you have met in person and you both want to take it further, the next step is to apply for her "fiancée" visa. On this type of visa she will be able to come to your country and stay for a time (for US it's 90 days). If you get married during this time, that young Russian girl is yours to stay indefinitely. If you don't get married, she will have to return to her home country. Read 'What is the process and how much it costs to bring your sweet, young Russian girl here' on FAQ page.

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