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Your Next Step - Meet your Russian Girls

What to do next once you've established a contact with a Russian woman

Let's say you have contacted some adorable Russian girls, and a few of them wrote you back. They seem to be interested. What do you do next?

The Short Answer - you have two options:

  1. Let us take care of everything. Continue communicating with her until you reach the point where you both are serious about meeting in person. Then, call us and we will help arrange your trip to CIS to meet that girl and possibly other Russian girls, or organize your meeting in a different country. After the first meeting, if you want to proceed with the relationship, we will help you with all the paperwork needed to bring her to your country. Let our 10 years of experience in these matters work for you.
  2. Take it on your own from here. You can get the Russian woman's direct contact information and do everything on your own. You have to exchange at least 15 letters with her. That means 15 two-way exchanges, so you need to open at least 15 letters from this particular girl. After that, you get her full contact information.

The Long Answer

First, let's take a deep breath and review the process of bringing the Russian woman of your choice to the US (Canada, Australia and Western European countries have similar laws).

The most effective way to bring her to your country is on the so-called "fiancée" visa. It allows her to enter the country and stay for 90 days. If you get married within these 90 days, she can stay and apply for her "green card". More details.

The immigration law requires that you meet the Russian woman in person before you can apply for her fiancée visa. Contrary to what you may have been told before, she cannot obtain a visa to come to the US on her own, unless there is some special case, which is very uncommon (contact us), if you believe she has a special case). So, in 99 out of 100 cases the most practical approach is to meet in her country. This way you will save a lot of time, money and energy by meeting several Russian girls during one trip.

However, some clients prefer to meet the girl in a third country, where she can travel without a visa, or easily obtain one. Such countries, among others, are Turkey and Dominican Republic. The problem with arranging a meeting in a third country is that she will most likely expect you to pay for her trip, and this raises a whole host of problems (can you trust her enough to send her say, $1000 for the trip, can she trust you enough to travel around the world and risk your not showing up, etc). Another problem is that you would be investing so much time, energy and money in only one Russian woman, whom you haven't met in person yet; and when you do, finally, meet her, the two of you might just not "click"; and then, you are back to square one. Consult with us, if you are thinking about arranging a meeting in a third country.

So, in most cases your next big step is a trip to CIS with an established schedule to meet several Russian girls.

Things to Consider

In order to prepare for such a big step you need several things:

  1. Have at least 3-4 Russian girls you are communicating to on a regular basis. We've seen clients traveling to Russia for just one girl and ending up marrying her, but this is not common. There are hundreds of reasons you might not "click".
  2. Make sure the women you are talking to are real. Unfortunately, there are a lot of clever scam artists out there. Our site is monitored to protect our clients from scammers, but we cannot guarantee that we are 100% free of them.
  3. Make sure you know her well. Avoid surprises such as her having children, when you thought she did not, her ability to speak English, and so on. That's what our site's communication system is for, and that's what our 15 letter minimum is for. Also, make sure your Russian woman, in her turn, got to know you well, too.
  4. Make sure she looks the way you imagine her. It's not uncommon for people to place 2-3 year old pictures of themselves on our site, because they "look better" on them. Ask the Russian girls for their recent pictures. Our site offers a private area where members can share additional pictures, not viewable by others.
  5. Make sure she genuinely wants to meet you. We want to prevent our clients from taking a trip half way across the world before they are sure the girl is going to show up. Here again our 15 letter minimum comes in very helpful. 

So, the choice is yours. After reading this information decide what is best for you: have our 10 year experience work for you, get the Russian girls contact info after you get to know her, or use expedited service and be on your own.



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Seven is a quite a special number. It is considered God's number: 7 days in a week, 7 angels in the Apocalypses, seven commandments... you wish! There are ten, all right.

Anyways, here are 7 smooth and clear steps for you to take to enter that sensational honeymoon.

Click here fill in the form, add your photo and you're pretty much done.

Note: the more details you add, the better your chances to get replies. 'Cause every day young Russian Girls from all over Ukraine and Russia will log on to RuPersonal.com to check and reply to men they like.
You browse the gallery of mouthwatering profiles and choose the women you would like to know better. Then, just write a message to your favorite young Russian girls - you still get to do it for Free.
You received a reply and can't wait to open it. Only at this point you will need to purchase credits ($1-$2 per credit depending on how many you buy). The number of credits needed to open a letter varies (see the Price Structure). Pay with a credit card, a check, wire transfer, and more.

You establish great communication and become good friends - no comments and no extra charge.
You can order an interpreted phone call, which costs 1.8 credits per minute (1 credit, if you don't require translation) and chat your heart out with that cute, young Russian girl. More on FAQ page.

Note: Please, keep in mind that exchanging personal contact info during such phone calls is not allowed.
So, you wrote back and forth, you talked on the phone and you really like that girl... You decide to get her direct contact details. Ok. First and foremost, you need to fill out the IMBRA form (US citizens only). Then, two options. One (recommended) is to open 15 messages from the lady and you have the right to request her contact info (or your money back, if this cannot be provided, which is very unlikely). Another option is to pay a $50 fee, whereupon we will contact your chosen young Russian girl and ask her permission to send you her contact details. Note that this money will not be refunded, if permission is not given, so make sure you have her consent.

Note: Please, keep in mind that even if you do have 15 opened messages from a lady, you cannot exchange personal contact info with her through our messaging system. You need to contact us. More on FAQ page.
Once you have established a relationships with one or a few of these gorgeous, young Russian girls, it's time to meet them personally. So, how do you do that? Since you both are located on different continents, we can help arrange your first meeting, if you both positively agree to that. Most women won't be able to obtain a US visa, so you will have to travel to her country, or meet on a “neutral territory”, like Dominican Republic, France, Turkey, Cyprus, etc. Read more on Visas and Immigration in our FAQ.

Note: If you choose not to use our service to arrange your meeting with the lady, there is a way to bypass it by getting her direct contact information. Read about it here.
Once you have met in person and you both want to take it further, the next step is to apply for her "fiancée" visa. On this type of visa she will be able to come to your country and stay for a time (for US it's 90 days). If you get married during this time, that young Russian girl is yours to stay indefinitely. If you don't get married, she will have to return to her home country. Read 'What is the process and how much it costs to bring your sweet, young Russian girl here' on FAQ page.

Congratulations! You've Arrived. Live Happily Ever After!

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